All tagged Unity

WE will win! (no matter who wins)

In the wake of a Harris win, most Trump supporters will experience disappointment and pain as they come to terms with reality. But the fog of deception will continue to cling to a segment of the Maga electorate, especially for those conditioned to reject reality. They will continue to be stuck in the first two stages of grief (denial and anger) on a loop. The truth is, they have been on that Ferris wheel for a long time. Good people naturally follow the path of grief through bargaining and depression all the way to acceptance. But, if the grieving process gets sabotaged by the validation of the denial and anger of a critical mass of one’s peers, bad things can happen. This is how mobs form—individual grievances weave together to create a narrative that legitimizes the fear, fuels the collective pain, and, like a chain reaction, can boil over into mob violence. This is what happened on January 6, 2021. And it could happen again.

A Huge Number of Evangelical Christians Say This is Their #1 Voting Issue

Unity is not agreement; it is staying together despite disagreement. Unity is not conformity; it is a generosity of being that not merely allows but deeply desires a diversity of expression. Unity is not an organizational chart or authority structure; it is an empowering culture where every individual believes in their agency and autonomy and has the support of their community to launch out, take risks, be creative, and accomplish greatness. Unity is not commanded; it is earned. Unity cannot coexist with fear but thrives in love. Unity is not to-each-his-own, laissez-faire tolerance; it is blood-sweat-and-tears, deeply invested care in the well-being of others. Unity is not a destination to arrive at; it is a destination to aim at and a vehicle of kindness to ride in on the way there…

"America: The Greatest Song the World Has Not Yet Heard" —Bono

This is America’s finest hour. This is when we defeat hate. This is when we rise up out of our petty divisions and show the world that freedom and personal responsibility can work together, that there is a pot of gold at the end of the long arc of justice, that despite our disagreements and different perspectives, we are still the United States of America. We are a good nation. We are a generous nation. We are kind and welcoming to strangers. We make room and say “you belong here” to the immigrant who is starting over, to the new coworker, to the family who just moved in from out of town, to the new kid in school, to the drunk who can’t seem to stay sober, to the beggar who can’t seem to get back on her feet, to those who have lost everything, to the ones who threw it all away. Fear itself is the enemy we have banished from our imaginations. We will not allow it to populate our minds with monsters or project the words “enemy,” “bad guys,” or “them” onto our neighbors. There is no “them.” There is only we. We will not let fear get the best of us. We will not let suspicion divide us. We will not let our hurt turn sour and spoil the public good. We will ferment our pain with grieving and longing, so we become sweet to those who taste, imparting all with hope and strength and intoxicating them with joy.

Confirmation Bias: 9 Ways to Know If You're Wrong (When You Feel So Right)

We can simultaneously hold two things to be true: 1) Some people are deceived, and 2) Those who are deceived don't know (or are unwilling to admit) they are deceived, otherwise they would not be deceived. This raises a question: Can one ever know they are deceived? Or are we all doomed to be in a perpetual perceptual blind spot? Is Heisenberg's Uncertainty Principle at work in our ideologies, such that discovering our own internal contradictions—the place behind our eyeballs where our biases meet our perceptions—becomes impossible? How much do we choose the narratives we believe and how much do the narratives we believe choose the narratives we believe? Circular questions like these can lead us into a catatonic black hole of naval-gazing introspection, but hey, we're all pretty far deep inside our myopic rabbit holes. I think it's time we begin digging ourselves out of our dopamine addictions.

We Hold the Keys to a United Future

We are his beloved. We are not a random evolutionary event happening on a lifeless rock floating through emotionally-detached space. No, this planet is alive. The universe is alive. And we are connected to all of it. We are the children of all of it being connected. We are the tip of the flame of a universe on fire. We are the manifestation of all the desires of divinity. We are the crown jewel on the big bang. We are the apple of God's eye. We are what he's been waiting for and desiring since the beginning. We are center-stage in a drama of universe-wide proportions and deep, deep significance.